Frequently Asked Questions
What kind of people do you see?
I do not discriminate based on race, sex, gender identity, physical or mental abilities, religion, age, diet or anything else. I do however discriminate based on your behavior. I will not see you if you are disrespectful, unhygienic, intoxicated; make any reference to wanting to switch or dominate me; suggest we engage in non-consensual or unsafe behavior; ask me for sexual services; cannot afford or otherwise waste my valuable time.
You must be generous, submissive, obedient, polite, showered and punctual.
“I’m a newbie to kink and fetish play, I’m interested in trying it… is that ok?”
Yes! of course, it is. I like to play at any level from hardcore to beginners. I love gently introducing new players to my world. I understand you are nervous, but that is part of the fun and excitement of what we are doing. I am SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL always.
When you arrive, I always allow a few minutes before every session to have little chat to calm your nerves (only a bit), address your concerns, discuss anything you may have forgotten or been reluctant to mention, and cover your safe words.
Why I have to pay a deposit?
“I’m only in town briefly/ looking for a same-day appointment, etc.. Do I have to pay a deposit?”
Yes, you have to pay a deposit. A deposit is non-negotiable and non-refundable. Do your research before traveling.
Deposits are for both of us:
For me: A deposit tells me that you are not a time-waster or a no-show. It secures your time with me and guarantees your place in the Dungeon schedule.
For you: Deposits are your first opportunity to show me how well you can follow direction, and reassures me that I should consider seeing you. A deposit is also a small commitment you make with yourself to help you move through the nerves you may have before we see each other.
If for some rare reason I need to cancel our session, and we cannot reschedule a time, we can discuss refunding the deposit.
Where are sessions held?
Sessions are in a fully-equipped dungeon in Dublin, Ireland. The exact location will be given to you after a deposit has been received and we have scheduled a time to session together.
I will consider outcall to an alternative address in Dublin, or to suitable clients in Europe, and other parts of the world I care to visit. I will require knowing the location and your details before agreeing. Only places worthy of my time will be considered. No awful hotels or sinister locations. You, of course, pay all travel and expenses. If you hope to see me somewhere other than Dublin, Ireland, but you can not or have no interest in covering my travel expenses; do not send emails asking me to contact you when I will be traveling to your part of the world. Show initiative and keep track of me, rather than asking me to keep track of you. Any travel plans I have will be posted on my website and social media as soon as the dates are confirmed. Let them be your guide as to when you should attempt to make arrangements.
Will I Switch?
No, I do not switch. Ever.
Are you looking for a personal slave?
I always have a stable of personal slaves. All of my personal slaves have earned their place at my feet. Before asking me about becoming one of them, you should know that this is one of the questions I receive the most. Some of my slaves I have had for many years; some are branded and tattooed as my property. All of them have come as paid clients to start with and built a relationship with me over time, establishing trust; with me learning their strengths, weaknesses, and skills. I learned the hard way very early on that to disregard this system resulted in time wasted and chores poorly done.
I’m not saying that I will never have room for more personal slaves, but if you don’t have what it takes for longterm commitment and service; then sessions dressed as my sexy french maid might be more your speed.
Can I buy your worn/ intimate items?
Yes. My scent is intoxicating, so I can understand you wanting to have it near you; perhaps to hold to your face while you masturbate; or to sleep with, beneath your pillow. Inquire by email for information on availability and prices.
Will we have sex?
No. I do not offer sexual services. I do not “eventually have sex” with clients or slaves. I am sex positive and do not condemn sex-for-pay, escorts have an essential place in sex-work, but I am not an Escort, I am a Dominatrix. While our time together can be sexy and fun, and very sensual, it still isn’t sex in the vanilla sense of the word.
BDSM role-play only. Safe, sane and consensual always.
Do you get naked?
I am in control of My sessions. I will wear as much or a little as I like. You may make wardrobe requests such as latex, leather or role-play. I will do my best to accommodate; however, I will never be completely naked.
Do you offer just shopping outings, dinner dates or cash drops?
Yes, I love shopping-outings and dinner-dates! These type of adventures are availing of my time and therefore require a deposit and tribute for my time in addition to items you may purchase, or dinner, etc.